You wouldn't normally expect someone with such a sweet name as Ava... to look like me. Trust me, it was a shock to my parents as well. I went from a porcelain skinned, cherub faced obedient teen... to a ball busting, hardcore life loving, Mistress.

My spiral down into BDSM and DOMINATION began when I went off to college and began experiencing other social groups. I met an older man who was a switch; when with me he felt submissive. He said I had a natural bitch aura to me. I was very intruiged about the idea of being in control... and from there we went.

I've never lived in a big city where the lifestyle underground is celebrated and huge... I've always sorta skipped around underground groups in my college campus and the next town over... so there's some parts of the lifestyle that I've yet to experience... but trust me, I'm still the Mistress you see in your dreams, or nightmares, late at night.

I have a special taste for pain. I like seeing the initial shock of a good caning or spanking. I enjoy seeing the look of, "OMG you want me to do what?" during a CBT session. I get pleasure from exploring new levels with you.. breaking down your barriers.

Many of my favorite interests include:

CBT, flogging, corpral punishment, queening, and of course humiliation.